Hey guys, in my previous post, I discussed two of some habits/attitudes that I believe is not right for someone in their 20s to still portray in 2019 which are SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT and DEPENDENCY ON CERTIFICATE, I also disclosed that the opinions are subjective to me.
Here are the three other ones, kindly share what you think in the comment section;
3. WORK IT
Who doesn’t want an easy quick way to results? But, this is your 20s when you should be learning and unlearning a lot of things. It’s the stage of working and paying dues for a secured better future. In a bid to fast-track success, young people seek for money-doubling games which usually almost always bring them back to stage one. In order to impress, some youths foolishly buy expensive cars they can only afford to fuel occasionally. And for some who did get their breakthrough early but could not manage the success well, they usually end up worse than before. When you take shortcuts in life, you’re most likely still going to meet the delay you avoided in the future.
A wise man once said, “You cannot produce a baby in one month by getting nine women pregnant”.
Enjoy your growth process, allow yourself make those mistakes and rise every time you hit the ground. Keep learning and unlearning. The wait is always worth it.
So many young people are brimming with arrogance these days. They waltz into every room like they own it even for job interviews with false airs, false swags, fake accents and trouser suits slightly sagged. They walk everywhere with pride in their gait because of a rich relative who promised them a job. Please, this is 2019, stop being rude to strangers. Stay humble and keep decent moral standards. It is almost pitiful for some youths, so much paparazzi until you hear them talk. Stop displaying your brazen childishness over the place.
5. LACK OF COMMITMENT
This attitude is mostly common in relationships. A lot of young people made it an habit of ‘sampling’ relationships in their 20s. They get involved in multiple relationships, fully aware that they are not ready for commitment. Some engage in mono-relationship but with false promises. Some things are better dropped with teenage exuberance in your 20s to avoid unnecessary troubles from the past that might threaten present happiness in form of an angry ex, an unrepentant lover that refuses to let go, a scar/hurt from the past relationships or a child outside wedlock hanging on your head by the time you’re eventually ready for something serious.
Life isn’t always in black and white. Be careful with your decisions especially ones that concern relationships because sowing your wild oats here and there could mean cutting your future inch by inch.
If you can work on these habits in your 20s, you can be assured of a secured future full of reaping great harvest of patience, good dreams and purposeful living.