I’ve never been a fan of/for stereotypes. I’m a maverick true and through. For some, they prefer to be termed ROGUE, others choose MISFITS amongst other concepts, I mostly prefer to refer to myself as NOT YOUR REGULAR TYPE OF GIRL. Generally, people who are seen as different are those not comfortable with their surroundings and are seen to be disturbingly different than others not because their choices have negative effects on them or others but because they dare to be pragmatic about their lifestyle and not just the usual banality. No need to hoodwink themselves about choices they will be doleful about. And no matter where their choices take them, they remain full of character and integrity, steadfast without reservation, without stopping, why? Because, they realize that this is more than an iconoclastic behavior, fad, evanescent, or a trendy term. This is a lifestyle.
Just because everyone you know is doing a particular thing or having a particular thing doesn’t mean its the best for you. Sometimes, what you see is just a ploy, most of these people wish they chose otherwise but gets stuck in the moment that all they could do is just move on with their choices. But, in a bid to feel among, people make whimsical choices and prefer to take what they think to be the safer route because they know some persons doing so too.
Maybe, some of us aren’t just meant to make conventional choices. Maybe standing alone and different isn’t such a bad idea afterall. Maybe you are what the crowd needs to see to know they are following the wrong way. Maybe the worst decision you’ll ever make is living your life in conformity with the laid down norms.
Maybe its okay to be different, be the change you so much desire to see. You don’t have to go into Fashion because most of your friends have a clothing line when your niche is in Catering. We need smart ass like yours in Technology, not everyone should be a model. . .
Just so you know,
“your life is not defined by your mistakes but the lessons you learnt from them”,
stop being lachrymose, resurge and take charge of your life again.
Maybe, just maybe you should also be that “NOT YOUR REGULAR TYPE OF GIRL/BOY” in your own unique way.
#DoYou #BeYou #FlauntYourDifference #BeTheChange